A male writer for Marie-Claire magazine says that there are some things women can hear from their best girlfriends, gay male friends and close female relatives but won't accept from their male significant others. Here they are:
Weight - Some guys think it's okay to make weight loss suggestions, but the best policy is silence. If you're dying to make a suggestion, get one of her sisters or girlfriends to tell her on your behalf.
Outfit - If you like what she's wearing, keep it simple and say "you look great" or "I like that dress." If you don't like what she's wearing, keep your mouth shut. And never fall into the trap of saying "you look great today" because she might turn around and say "Today? Does that mean I don't look good on other days?"
Friends/Family - Some people have friends and family members who are annoying. We all do. But we choose our friends and if someone criticizes our friends they are also criticizing our choices in a way. As for family, don't forget that blood is often thicker then water.
Driving: It seems to be a guy thing: no matter what, they think they're better drivers than the women in their lives. If she's got really bad driving skills that could get her pulled over or in an accident, talk to her in the most caring way possible about it. Otherwise, keep your mouth shut and take the wheel yourself whenever possible.
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