I definity would not secretly be happy about a friend of mind gainning 30lbs. You are not a true friend if you are not truthful with your friends. I think people who are insecure about their own weight or just plain jealous that someone may be thinner than them, would secretly be happy .There are so many obese people in the world and maybe , just maybe , if a friend tried to help them with weight control , we could have a healthier population. jealousy is a terrible thought. being a true friend and being able to speak openly with someone you care about is more important to me . cheers!!!
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